The Artful Craft of Public Speaking …
March 28, 2013

© Mansion Toastmasters of Burlington
The other night I attended James Burchill’s Business-in-Burlington’s much hyped March 21st event at the Burlington Performing Arts Centre. Over 500 small and mid-business types milled about, chatting up old and new contacts.
Truth be told though, regardless of the very pleasant surroundings, free hors d’oeuvres and engaging exhibitor displays, it was hard work if one was coming in cold. I noticed a few shy wall-flowers clinging to the perimeters not quite sure when or where to ‘dive in’. Those familiar with other BiB events had a decided advantage. Most of those merrily schmoozed with other familiar faces. All in all, the place was rocking.
Even so, one moment stood out. The entire event came to a stand still when Burlington’s Mayor, Rick Goldring, took to the podium. He spoke for a few minutes to welcome the guests and congratulate them on their assorted start-ups and on-going ventures. When he stepped down, there was a decided lull in the conversation as his ‘tone’ set in, and then, all intensified their busy chatter.
What struck me most about the Mayor’s short presentation was his ‘delivery’. He spoke confidently, combining a deft interweaving of chummy casualness with polite formality respectful of his civic station. His voice was clear, warm and, to all listening, encouraging. He spoke very well. It was a crystalline rosy moment that made all listeners feel a part of one big happy family. And, as such, he did a very good job of it.
I started to wonder what specific attribute made this happen. Looks? Can’t hurt. Personal attire? Made an impression for sure. Nice tie? Sure. A title? It definitely helps, especially when infused with passion and vision. So, Passion and Vision? Yes, both. But personal passion or an invigorating vision won’t get a Leader anywhere without one underlying capability.
Earlier, I had seen the Mayor stand alone in the wings quietly glancing at some notes. He was obviously preparing before he spoke, and, on cue, he delivered.
His brief speech was, in sum, an insightful lesson about the on-going art and craft of public speaking.
Can anyone learn this skill?
Yes. But leadership cannot be learned in a day. It takes practice.
In Burlington, one of our best unsung resources for honing this necessary leadership capability is Mansion Toastmasters.
This eclectic group is the local club of Toastmasters International, founded in Santa Ana California in 1924 by Dr. Ralph C. Smedley. (It was he who conceived and developed a simple framework to help others speak more effectively.)
Mansion Toastmasters of Burlington’s mission is “to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment, in which every member has the opportunity to develop communication and leadership skills, which, in turn, foster self-confidence and personal growth.”
From their website, “A company’s success depends on communication. How well they communicate can determine whether a company quickly grows into an industry leader or joins thousands of other businesses mired in mediocrity.”
So, what actually happens at one of these meetings? “A typical toastmaster evening provides a variety of presentation and speaking challenges. These are varied in length and complexity and are assigned in direct relation to the Toastmasters’ expertise. Toastmasters learn by a) seeing good work presented and evaluated, and b) imitating successful techniques. Toastmasters meetings are spiced with laughter, creativity and camaraderie. We have fun! “
I went to my first Toastmasters meeting on Wednesday night and had a blast. It really was fun, as well as emotionally engaging and intellectually challenging. I watched and listened as everyone struggled with various levels of fear, shyness and “nerves” to be both ‘present’ and ‘public’. It was an inspiring introduction to the artful craft of being a ‘public persona’. Everyone, myself included, had to ‘stand and deliver’. The pace was fast with a short five minute break half way through the proceedings.

Toastmasters have fun on Hallow’en!
© Mansion Toastmasters
Some spoke better then others, but, at the end of the day, it wasn’t so much a competition as an opportunity for everyone to better their presentation skills. At all times members and newcomers were encouraged with on-going positive reinforcement through enthusiastic hand-clapping by the entire group. Sounds silly, but it works. A Timekeeper made sure everyone stayed on track. Sort of. At times it did appear a bit chaotic and seemed to fall into an impromptu ‘free-for-all’. But the mentors, or more seasoned members of the group, were quick to re-focus those with jittery ‘nerves’. Evaluators judged the Speakers, and they, in turn, were judged by the General Evaluator. Time just flew past.
Also from their website: “Using the speaking and leadership skills developed at Toastmasters, people become more active in business, churches, service and charity organizations. Toastmaster members are able to organize activities, conduct meetings, and speak in public as their organization’s representative. Some even become active in local, state or national government.”
Most would agree that Burlington’s Mayor, Rick Goldring, has become a much better public speaker after a few short years of practice. Know this: you can do it too.
Every Wednesday night throughout the year, from 7:30 to 9:30 pm, guests can join this small engaging group of 20 to 30 people (over the age of 18) when they get together at the Paletta Mansion on Lakeshore Road in the Cumis Room. Learn to refine your listening and speaking skills. Guests can attend for three ‘free’ visits. After that, membership, at $250 per year, is required. Based on what I experienced in those two very short hours, that expense is well worth the price of admission.
Mansion Toastmasters at Paletta Lakefront Park – 4250 Lakeshore Road East in Burlington, Ontario, Canada.
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(Guest Post) Author’s Bio: Margaret Lindsay Holton is an award-winning author & artist from the Golden Horseshoe region of Southern Ontario, Canada. She generally speaks when spoken to.
What MAKES a Writer Write ?
January 23, 2013

Ever since I can remember, I have had a writing box. Most writers do.
This box is a compost heap of peripatetic ideas and sideswiped observations. Something will catch a writer’s fancy and it will get jotted down, then, later, tossed into the box. Stubby pencil bit scratches on found paper or full-length manuscripts of fluttering folios, half composed computer compositions or verdant wet pen epistles: all go into the box. There, the ideas will sit for a time to germinate. Two days or two decades per item is not an uncommon gestation period for these ‘seeds’. Ideas vary.
When I return later to view my young shoots, I frequently find that some have not taken root (pithy but pointless), or that others must be zealously weeded out (verbose ravings). Often I see the formation of a healthy new bud (a single word reverberates). There may well be new growth struggling on an old growth idea (polite licking aka poli-ticking.) Then I will feverishly prune-edit, cultivate-rewrite and otherwise happily tend to my quixotic word garden.
The stories and poems that follow are all items from the box. They cover a period of over thirty years and reflect the interests and critical obsessions of a maturing young woman who now stands as a mid-career artist in Southern Ontario, Canada, at the start of the twenty-first century.
Some tales began long ago (and far away) and have only recently come to final fruition. Some have grafted onto others creating startling new hybreds. And some, I know, to a seasoned and urban urbane editor, may still need some heavy pruning. However, I have included a few of these scraggly ‘wild ones’ because they radiate an exploratory and experimental ‘colour‘. I find they have their own rare merit and honest beauty.
They are, I hope, as much a delight to your senses in their singularity as they are to me. You will see certain features repeated in pattern. You will hear certain words repeated in different contexts. You may wonder why-on-earth I choose a particular tale to share with you. I can only say to you that my writing box is a living ‘words-in-progress’: one thought or idea shapes and pollinates another.
The stories you read today will be gone tomorrow. They will certainly have grown into something else overnight. Soon, I know, you will artfully re-arrange them amongst your own personal perceptions and muddy memories.
My final hope is that you may pluck a tale or two that has some pressing and passionate zing for you. Perhaps you will then cross-pollinate, re-cultivate and find again the sweet joy of a few of these wonderfully warbling words.
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So, let’s start at the beginning. In my late teens, circa 1970, when thrust from the gentle rural countryside of South-western Ontario into the heady cosmopolitan environment of the University of Toronto, I was instantly beguiled by the rhetorical possibilities of language. I had always known there was emotive logic and persuasive argument, but to learn that ‘rhetoric’ was a studied and applied linguistic ‘science’ was both eye-opening and liberating. I desired to truly understand what differentiates the written words of lawyers, say, from those of journalists, or writers of fiction, or playwrights and poets. It seemed that politics and commerce constantly erupted in all these arenas and subsequently shaped the tone of language. I discovered that words often have a different shade of meaning according to their different roots of usage. Playing with language became an obsessive preoccupation.
Integral to these musings was an emerging sexual persona of multiple dimensions. I increasingly understood that men and women do see the world very differently, and that they use different ‘language’ to express these views. I wanted to explore these ‘voices’ too.
After graduating with a four year Lit & Philosophy degree in the mid-70′s, and dusty too from several continental sojourns, I settled down to the onerous task of ‘working for a living from dawn to dusk’. I naturally gravitated towards entry level jobs that dealt with words. Most positions allowed me to perceive, enter and evaluate what I increasingly considered to be a loosely federated Advertising Empire that dominated North America, physically and psychically. Within this web, we think and become what we watch and consume. The connecting link is ‘sales’ generated by advertising writing. Punchy slogans and riveting sound bites seduce even the most wary, wry and witty.
During the frantic decade of the 80′s, my mind was ever racing forward to find that which endures beyond the hype. I hit many walls, bounced back, bruised but brighter.
Suddenly the 90′s were upon us and all seemed intensely focused on the emerging cyber mania and its electric and electrifying McLuhan offspring: the internet. Writing, and even reading, took on new dimensions as the lines increasingly blurred between the Real and the Un-Real. Television and Photography increasingly replaced the Word. Vision dominated. Language, especially the written word, became the cheap side-kick. Spit as needed. Speed and the surreal (surly real?) became gods. We, in North America, still wanted everything – our body urges and our emotional needs – instantaneously gratified with no thought to consequence, personally or globally.
In the middle of the 90′s, the explosive Bre-X gold fraud scandal was one of many that had severe economic repercussions around the world. Canada fell from grace in the global business community. Ordinary investors lost faith and trust. Dot and telecom technology stocks soon followed, collapsing overnight. Insider trading scandals and continued corporate accounting fraud rattled the cages of commerce. Enron became a household word.
And then Dolly, the sheep, was cloned.
Yet, it seemed to me, that even then, underlining this hurly-burly consumption and destruction were certain immutable Truths.
The Earth revolves around the Sun. This fact is unlikely to change anytime soon.
I found towards the end of the 90′s I was exploring and writing like a psychic geologist – looking for noteworthy nuggets to pass along.
Something marvelous seemed to occur when we tipped into the twenty-first century. All the dilapidated debris of the previous millenium momentarily disappeared and there was this unexpected gush of fresh expectation, a sincere feeling of hope for our global future. We seemed to be on the right path, moving in the right direction.
And yet, today, only at the beginning of the eighth year of this bold and now very bloody decade, we seem to have lost not only our footing but our moral centre. World war, and the unpredictable and continuous threat of ‘terrorism’, hang over us like a noxious threatening nuclear cloud. Outrageous atrocities – man’s inhumanity to man – unimagined a year ago – are now routinely reported in the mass media. We watch global events unfold on television. Men fight territorial squabbles over precious natural resources. All are shoving, pushing and grabbing. Camps of ‘Us’ and ‘Them’ are everywhere. And yet – are these the real stories? The enduring stories?
As a woman on the planet, I don’t think so. We don’t need to self-destruct.
Words of real power are needed now. We must rediscover the precious preciseness of words, and then use these ‘word tools’ wisely, honestly, carefully.
To that end, to ‘sharpen my pen and strengthen my voice’, I entered the Humber School of Writers Graduate Program in the spring of 2004, and, for the next six months, was most fortunate to understudy with the two-time Giller Prize winner, M.G.Vassanji: a seasoned, worldly writer. We worked slowly back and forth through many of these evolving stories. Some he liked, some he didn’t. His periodic question marks – ‘???’ - in the columns of my manuscript made me re-think my structures, my use of styles and my expostulatory intentions. His attentive and thoughtful reading has helped me to refine my essential reason for writing. He has also helped me further define my future responsibility as a writing artist.
This can probably best be summed up in this way: I am a Caretaker.
In many ways, it is the oldest story in the book.
Today, it seems this story must be told again and again, in every language, in every medium and with every voice. We are all Caretakers.
As a writing artist, I have bent down and planted my thoughts in a variety of different ‘voices’ to reflect these times. I pass them on to you – wherever you may be – on this, our gorgeous ancient planet.
Cross-pollinate, re-cultivate, find again the sweet joy of words.
And then, please, care take …
Canadada
First published, here, in 2008.
New Year: Wild Turkeys
January 4, 2013

Wonderful winter walk reveals early visitors … twelve wild turkeys.
Great way to start the New Year …
Christmas Lights: ‘Gangnam Style’
November 27, 2012
Hee. Apparently Psy’s hugely successful & catchy ‘Gangnam Style’ music video has outperformed Justin Beibers 2010 ‘Baby’ video on Youtube. Both now have over 800 million ‘views’ … One enterprising couple from Texas have done their own inventive interpretation of the massive global hit.
‘Christmas Lights: ‘Gangnam Style’ – VIDEO HERE.
… only in America, gotta love it …
Chateau Noisy, Belgium in HDR ….
November 24, 2012

As a general rule I haven’t been overly impressed by HDR as a ‘manipulation’ in photography. But recently I stumbled on this series of Chateau de Noisy in Belgium, as shot by several veteran ‘urban explorers‘ …. HDR certainly works with this subject. The following set takes you were you need to go to get the full feel for this exotic and intriguing ‘ruin’ … enjoy.
Link thru to Chateau Noisy HDR slideshow here.

And enjoy multiple shots of this exotic place via Google images.
Our Timely Transition: Part 1
June 15, 2012
On May 24th, 2012, as part of the RBG Speakers Series, Archaeologist David G. Smith examined how pre-contact cultures lived off the land at Cootes Paradise at the tip of Lake Ontario, in Canada.
How did pre-historic cultures live off the land and produce food for their communities? This timely topic was the subject of a recent lecture by David G.Smith, presented at the Royal Botanical Gardens near Hamilton Ontario. “Timely????” you may ask. Yes, indeedy, timely.
Today, in North America, we primarily exist with the parameters of a highly urbanized monoculture industrial complex. We drive everywhere, plug into our energy-sucking gadgets, and allow ourselves to be bombarded by media from a thousand different sources. We buy food produced several continents away, consume medications that were packaged overseas and purchase products that are manufactured by factories offshore. All told, this large scale corporate globalization of our lives has increasingly encroached on our personal day-to-day resilience and individual capacity to survive. As a result, the whole idea of pioneering ‘self-sufficiency’, in the truest sense of the word, is now considered at best ‘quaint’, at worst, ‘backward’.
Yet, REALITY STRIKES. Most everyone knows that our collective home, the planet, as a result of our unrelenting excesses, is ‘stressed-out’. We take, we take, we take – with very little thought of the short or long term consequences. Climate change, power outages, (let alone nuclear fallout), hang over our heads like menacing death scepters. Overall, as a species, we have collectively ‘lost our way’. More then ever it seems, we do need a sustainable ‘return to our earth roots’. We need to re-establish our immediate LOCAL connection to the land, air, and water that daily sustains us.
So, yes indeedy, timely. In order to move forward, we really must take a good hard look back … Consider this short illustrated video to put our current situation in perspective: ‘300 years of Fossil Fuels in 300 seconds’
Now, IMAGINE an unnamed verdant marshland flush with freshwater fish, turtle, muskrat, beaver and wild fowl, an adjacent land mass redolent with wildlife like squirrel, rabbit, deer and bear. Imagine the seasonal cycles of nature that nurtured and recycled all these species. Imagine the wind, the rain, the cold, the heat, the sun, the cycles of birth, decay and death. Now imagine small families of humans gathered on the shoreline of this marsh. Here, they camp. Here, they hunted. Here, they gathered food substances from the marsh to nourish their growing children. Small groups, mobile and totally self-sufficient, they survived. Their survival was based on an intimate knowledge and appreciate of how the land, waters and skies worked in concert. They learned and applied generational skills that allowed them to responsibly interact with these natural processes. They knew Nature and, moreover, RESPECTED it. Lesson No. 1.
Lesson No. 2. They planted seeds.
Enter Professor David G. Smith, an archaeologist specializing in pre-historic cultures of northeastern North America. Much that follows, and much of what he spoke of during his lecture of pre-contact’ culture at the RBG, has been extracted and paraphrased from a previously published lecture that he co-authored with Helen Haines in 2011. (*)
In summation: The Princess Point promontory in Cootes Paradise,(one
of the most biologically diverse areas in Canada), represents one of the earliest known human settlements in the North Eastern quarter of the continent. This site was frequented over a period of time starting approximately 9,000 B.C. until A.D. 1650, with the heaviest period of occupation occurring during the ‘Early ‘Late Woodland’ Period from 500 to A.D. 1500. This period is now referred to as the ‘Princess Point Culture’. (Evolution Graph / Credit: Supplied by David G. Smith)
As a bit of background for the unfamiliar: Cootes Paradise Marsh is located at the extreme west end of Lake Ontario, adjacent to Burlington Bay (an inner bay from Hamilton Harbour). The wetland was named after Lieutenant, later, Captain, Thomas Coote, a British military officer who frequently hunted waterfowl in the marsh. Cootes Paradise is at the nexus of the Great Lakes-St. Lawrence biome and the Carolinian forest zone. It is a deciduous forest zone that, prior to European clearing, consisted of large stands of beech and maple trees. The larger area encompasses a distinctive range of Carolinian flora and fauna, and the wetlands are an important staging habitat for a wide variety of migratory birds. Princess Point was named after the current Queen Elizabeth II, and is now situated in world famous, Royal Botanical Gardens. http://www.rbg.ca/
Wild rice was a dominant wetland plant species in the marsh from at least 2,000 years ago until about 800 years ago. Wild rice was a grain commonly foraged by early hunter-gatherers. After that time, wild rice in the marsh declined while cattails increased, as evidenced by the quantity of pollen deposited in the peat that underlies the marsh. This layering shows up in ‘core’ samples.
Although the Cootes Paradise Marsh and the Princess Point promontory have been a part of the European-colonized landscape since the late eighteenth century,
it was only in the latter part of the twentieth century that archaeological excavations began. Prior to the twentieth century the marsh was considered a separate “little lake” as recorded by LaSalle’s scouting party when he first visited the area in 1669. A hundred & seven years later, in 1776, Lady Simcoe described the area as a “marshy tract of land” that attracted a wide variety of wildlife. – A paradise, indeed, for hunting humans.
Post molds, fire pits & refuse-heap earth holes (called ‘(middens’) of broken pottery, turtle bone & fish debris confirm that Princess Point was a frequent native encampment. Other sites in Cootes Paradise include Bull’s Point, Sassafras Point, Rat’s Island and Nursery Point.
At present, there are two theories about how people came to plant corn there. The first suggests a migratory invasion by the maize cultivating Iroquois over the earlier Algonquin speaking hunter-gathers. And the second – more popular – theory, suggests a more gradual ‘in situ’ development that emerged through a growing trading knowledge of seeds. Harvested maize kernels eventually replaced wild rice as a food stable. Corn is easier to harvest, offers more diverse food-making options and has longer lasting storage qualities. Princess Point has the unique distinction of revealing, through carbon dating, the oldest known maize kernels found in all of the Northeast of America. These round pellets, a direct descendent of maize originally cultivated in Mexico 5000 years ago, eventually evolved into ‘Northern Flint’ maize, the precursor of what we now know as local ‘corn’ today.
Archeological evidence in the form of maize kernels and pottery shards confirm that by A.D. 500, natives were growing & storing maize as a supplement to their existing regime of foraged resources. Over the next six hundred years it appears “the Princess Point cultivator-hunter-gatherers made the transition from low-level food producers to semi-sedentary, village-dwelling Early Ontario Iroquoian horticulturalists.” With their growing know-how, these Iroquoian ‘farmers’ gradually moved further inland (10 km) establishing more permanent village settlements.
It is clear that the Iroquoian continued to return to this wildlife abundant marsh to both fish and hunt long before the full-on European invasion of the 1700’s.
Iroquois Village Settlements around Cootes Paradise, at the tip of Lake Ontario. Image supplied by D.G.Smith
After Euro-Settlement, Cootes Paradise marsh continued as a favored local ‘hunting ground’. As late as the 1950’s poached muskrat furs were confiscated and sold to fund 24 hour poaching patrols.
Fast forward to today, well, almost. Clearly we are not going to revert to bows & arrows, muskrat stew or feverishly pound down our own corn meal. How then do we proceed?
Lesson No. 3. We must agree, as a ‘local tribe’, to embrace the necessary transition to a better balanced relationship with planet Earth. Consider this recent English initiative, InTransition, founded by Rob Hopkins http://www.transitionnetwork.org/transition-2 .
We too can transform ourselves to ‘re-connect’ to the natural world that daily sustains us. For starters, we can plant our own veggies as our ancestors, native & non-native, once did. For the uninitiated, there really is nothing like dirt under your fingernails to make you feel a part of Nature, not apart from it. Pulling a fresh sun-warmed tomato from the vine is primal and authentic in a way that a supermarket forage never can be. At the very least we can once again support local food growers by buying their fresh produce from local farmer’s markets. We can walk or cycle to our destinations in the downtown core, and simply stop to talk in person for more then a minute with our friendly neighbours and curious colleagues. Enjoying these timeless simple daily pleasures, re-discovering our ‘local roots’ in this convivial social way, will help lead the NEXT generation to a better future then our own.
IMAGINE how much better ALL life on the planet would be if we celebrated ‘Earth Day Every Day’ instead of just once a year for an hour or two.
So, yes indeedy, timely …
*For additional information about the necessity of our timely transition,consider LINKS & REFERENCE MATERIAL supplied in Part 2.






